Once you’ve begun the process of reconnecting and rekindling that flame that so nearly sputtered into darkness, the journey is far from over.
Now things start to get interesting, and there will be times that it seems the darkness that almost enveloped you is safely in your past…then something will happen…
If you’re anything like me, this is a new concept to you. I’d heard of the “language of love” before, but never really gave it any thought. At best I thought it was simply a “play on words”. The simple fact is, that like people from different cultures that have a different dialect and language,… Read More »
I know, to you it feels like it just happened, and for you it did. But hopefully by now you’ve reflected and realized that this is something that has been “in the works” for quite some time now. You likely feel, along with a great many things, betrayed. I get it…really, I do. It’s a… Read More »
Now that you’ve begun accepting the position that you are in. It’s time for something that is even harder… You have to start thinking about what you want! All Posts in this Series: I Love You but I’m Not In Love With You, Meaning and Advice It’s Normal for Your Heart to be Afraid, but… Read More »
It’s a shattering experience to suddenly be faced with the potential loss of someone that you never imagined life without.
Understanding will come, but to get to the next step you have to accept that you and your love aren’t in the same emotional reality you thought you were. Denying that fact will only prolong, and likely help drive your partner further away.
If you are among those unfortunate souls to hear the words, “I love you but I’m not in love with you” from the one you love…these will be the most devastating words you could ever hear short of your husband or wife telling you that they’re dying. But then you know that, don’t you? Otherwise… Read More »