Affinity in a relationship is what helps us get through the rough times and the slow times. It’s what makes something funny that normally wouldn’t be and helps maintain and create new connections from existing ones.
Affinity based information on this site will typically have to do with romantic and marital love, closeness, rapport, compatibility, and connections in general. Affinity wraps up all those words and more and is more accurate when describing what a good and healthy relationship should be like.
Ten words that if said by the right person can alter your life in ways that you never imagined. It doesn’t matter if you are a man or a woman, these words are a catalyst to a paradigm shift. Good or bad…depends on you.
Words of affirmation are about appreciation, compliments and affirming how you feel about your loved one. The first love language is all about showing how you appreciate someone through words that build them up.
Everyone is looking for love and few find a love that lasts a lifetime. But you can…there’s a secret language, and you’re closer than you think to finding out that secret. Learning a love language can be hard, but it can be more fun than a person should be allowed to have too.
Sex is one of the things that can easily break a relationship all by itself. It’s the way to connect more deeply and passionately, that transcends words and every other form of intimacy, especially over time.
If you’re anything like me, this is a new concept to you. I’d heard of the “language of love” before, but never really gave it any thought. At best I thought it was simply a “play on words”. The simple fact is, that like people from different cultures that have a different dialect and language,… Read More »
Well now that just seems silly, doesn’t it? I mean, how can you command respect and grow your integrity while agreeing to everything? Simple, it depends on what you are agreeing to and how you are agreeing. All Posts in this Series: I Love You but I’m Not In Love With You, Meaning and Advice… Read More »
I know, to you it feels like it just happened, and for you it did. But hopefully by now you’ve reflected and realized that this is something that has been “in the works” for quite some time now. You likely feel, along with a great many things, betrayed. I get it…really, I do. It’s a… Read More »
Now that you’ve begun accepting the position that you are in. It’s time for something that is even harder… You have to start thinking about what you want! All Posts in this Series: I Love You but I’m Not In Love With You, Meaning and Advice It’s Normal for Your Heart to be Afraid, but… Read More »
It’s a shattering experience to suddenly be faced with the potential loss of someone that you never imagined life without.
Understanding will come, but to get to the next step you have to accept that you and your love aren’t in the same emotional reality you thought you were. Denying that fact will only prolong, and likely help drive your partner further away.
If you are among those unfortunate souls to hear the words, “I love you but I’m not in love with you” from the one you love…these will be the most devastating words you could ever hear short of your husband or wife telling you that they’re dying. But then you know that, don’t you? Otherwise… Read More »
“The Wall (Die Wand)” is a not so well known movie written and directed by Austrian Julian Pölsler (book written by Marlen Haushofer, Audio book narrated by Kathe Mazur) that over simply stated is a story about boundaries and isolation. This is a foreign film that is mostly in English with a smattering of German… Read More »