Monthly Archives: January 2017

Once Upon a Time We were Happy, and Suddenly It’s Over? The Heart Heals Slowly, don’t Fear the Future

I know, to you it feels like it just happened, and for you it did.  But hopefully by now you’ve reflected and realized that this is something that has been “in the works” for quite some time now. You likely feel, along with a great many things, betrayed.  I get it…really, I do.  It’s a… Read More »

What do I do with this Broken Heart? Avoid Requests for Space and Use Your Head to Think about what You Want

Now that you’ve begun accepting the position that you are in.  It’s time for something that is even harder… You have to start thinking about what you want! All Posts in this Series: I Love You but I’m Not In Love With You, Meaning and Advice It’s Normal for Your Heart to be Afraid, but… Read More »

It’s Normal for Your Heart to be Afraid, but fighting for the Past Will Mean the End, So Start Accepting Your New Beginning

It’s a shattering experience to suddenly be faced with the potential loss of someone that you never imagined life without.

Understanding will come, but to get to the next step you have to accept that you and your love aren’t in the same emotional reality you thought you were. Denying that fact will only prolong, and likely help drive your partner further away.